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Our attitude drives our behavior.
Just as laughing or yawning is infectious, so is our attitude.
And that is a good thing, because we can learn to control our
attitude and direct it to work positively for us.
Attitude is infectious.
Just think about that for a moment. Think about the people who
you enjoy spending time with. Why do you enjoy spending time
with them? More than likely, it's because they are positive, or
make you feel good - and it all stems directly from their
attitude.
You don't like hanging around with people who are always
negative, do you? No, you don't. And neither do women.
They want to be around people who make them feel good - people
who energize them with their infectious positive attitude, not
people who are bitter and constantly complaining.
When I say that attitude is infectious, I mean that the people
around you automatically pick it up, without even thinking.
Just think back to a time when someone you know came silently
into the room, looking extremely depressed. Even if you were all
laughing a moment before, all of a sudden a damper has been put
on the room - automatically - just because of this one person's
attitude.
Your body and attitude influence one another, often mirroring
each other.
If you have an angry attitude, then your body will display angry
actions. If you have a happy attitude, then your body will
display happy actions.
You can change your attitude on command, but it takes practice.
Get out a mirror, and look into it. Seriously. Go do it.
Practice acting happy, confident, calm and brave, using as much
body language as you can.
Look into the mirror and start saying great in as many different
ways as you can. Say it funnily, crazily, honestly, happily and
so on.
Then, when you need to change your attitude, remember your
practice sessions in the mirror and start saying to yourself
"great, great, great" (silently if you have to), until you start
feeling happy.
Sounds crazy, but it works.
About the author:
If you want more of this original information and insight on
dating and relationships, see Tim's other articles at bigbrothersadvice.com
, and conversation-master.com
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