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Are you wondering how to communicate with that new man in your
life? Or maybe you are just wondering about the next man in your
life? New or old, it's never too late to learn how to
communicate in the language of love.
Maybe you've seen the tomboyish girl that somehow has men
flocking around her. If you stopped turning green with envy for
a moment, you'd notice why she was a man magnet. She just sort
of fit herself into him, like a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that he
didn't even know was missing.
Instead of rolling your eyes at that dazed and happy-in-love
look he has on his face, why not look into how she did it? Learn
these tips on how to communicate in a whole new way by getting
to know his love language and speaking it fluently!
We all know that love is built on the solid foundation of
communication. When we are in love we are on the same page as
our lover. It's a special level of communication that people in
love have.
Some call it chemistry, but really, in order to even get to the
chemistry stage you need to know his love language. For a clue
as to what that might be, we need to understand how he relates
to the world around him.
Everyone perceives their world with three senses - sight, sound
and feelings. Psychologists have discovered that even though we
use all three senses, one of these senses is always more
pronounced. It doesn't mean that it replaces the others, but if
you pay attention, the more dominant one will reveal itself to
you.
Asking questions is the easiest and fastest way to learn his
language and since asking questions is the most common way to
get to know someone or start a conversation, he'll never
suspect.
He's just returned from a business trip. You ask about his trip.
Pay attention to his answer:
1. If he's visual he might say: the weather was terrible. I
didn't get to see the sun once!
2. An auditory guy will talk about sounds: we got the account,
which was good. But the hotel I stayed at was too noisy.
3. He is a feeler if he answers something like: I have to admit;
I'm not much into traveling alone. I get lonely when I visit new
places.
Knowing a man's love language is the key in how to communicate
with him in a way that will make him feel that you are the
missing piece to his puzzle. You'll just fit. Of course, one
question isn't going to tell you. You'll have to watch for a
pattern to emerge.
Once you do find the prominent sense, you'll want to speak his
language. Talking with your visual man will be all about what
you saw on the way over, while the auditory fellow will want to
know about the new CD you just bought.
It doesn't matter what your love language is. As long as you
know how to communicate to him in his Love Language you'll soon
be the envy of all the other girls. That is, unless you tell
them your secret.
About the author:
Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced
a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing
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