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How to Talk Women into Your Bed: Part I
A common question I am asked is: How can I get women hot by how I
talk to them? How can I use my words to create attraction in
women, without having to rely on my looks or social standing or
money?
Well, as the 18th century French Philosopher, Voltaire said:
"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the
Queen of France". (By the way, Voltaire was a good pal of Ben
Franklin, one of America's founding fathers and together they
seduced hundreds of hot women. And they were doing this well into
their 80's)
Now I'm sure you have probably known a guy who wasn't good
looking, didn't have money, but somehow he just knew what to say
to women to make them eager to "jack his beanstalk", "ride his
baloney pony" and "do the grown up". In short, he had lots of
women, while better-looking guys had few or none. The reality is
that men have been "sweet-talking" women out of their panties (or
bloomers or whatever) since recorded history began.
It's just with Speed Seduction we are going to make it a lot more
precise for you by introducing you to the concept of "recipes" or
"states".
You see, one key shift in understanding how to get what you want
with the women you want is:
STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT WOMEN TO DO WITH YOU!
Now I know this may seem like a key paradox. After all, isn't
this all about getting very hot women to do what we want-sleep
with us, give us great sex, worship the ground we slink across,
etc?
Yes of course it is. But the key here is, GO FOR HER FEELINGS
FIRST!
If you can create the intense, passionate feelings in women that
they dream about then THE BEHAVIORS THAT FLOW FROM THOSE
FEELINGS: HAVING GREAT SEX, PLEASING YOU, AND ANY KINKY STUFF YOU
LIKE WILL COME NATRUALLY AND EASILY.
So the real question is: how can we awaken the feelings and
emotional states that give us this kind of "leverage" with women?
The key is to capture and lead her imagination.
Just remember this rule: her imagination is the key to her
emotions. Her emotions are the key to her bedroom door!
I don't care how hot she is. I don't care if she is a "10" on the
looks scale and YOU are a "two". If you can capture her
imagination, then you can capture her emotions. Capture her
emotions and you tap into the deep cultural and social
conditioning that teaches women from the time they can first
speak that following their emotions is the key to being a woman.
Now the good news is… you can do this in a way that truly
fulfills her and leaves her feeling wonderful, so BOTH of you
win.
The next issue of this newsletter will begin the process of
teaching you how. For now, bear this in mind:
Every year, romance novels outsell every other form of fiction
combined, not just in the United States, but the ENTIRE Western
world.
Tom Clancy, John LeCarre, Stephen King and any of your other
favorite authors combined can't even make even a small dent in
the sales of books that you and I as men would RIGHTLY consider
trash!
Yet women of all ages read these things.
Why? Simply because they want their imagination and emotions
stimulated and women do this through words; the words they speak,
the words they hear, and in this case the words they read.
You may not have an ugly face to talk away. You may not want to
"bed the Queen of France." But to be the king of the bedroom, you
have to learn to structure your communication in ways most guys
will never even begin to consider or understand.
In our next issue, we'll talk about the all important ideas of
emotional "recipes" and "states" and how this will allow you to
jump from chump to seduction super-star.
Until then,
Peace and piece,
Ross
P.S. I don't care by the way if you want lots of ladies or just
one special girl for a long-term relationship. Unless you can
learn to trigger her "attraction" and "chemistry" states, you
won't get a one-night stand or a "real-hate-shun-ship". You will
merely hear that age-old curse, "Let's just be friend". YUCCH! I
wouldn't wish that on a Washington bureaucrat or the kids in high
school who used to beat me silly!
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Want to talk women into your bed? This article by Ross Jeffries, the controversial creator of Speed Seduction®, tells you how. For more information like this you need to subscribe to our free newsletter at http://www.seduction.com
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